What To Do First When Someone Dies
This is likely to be a very distressing and emotional time for you. Right now, the first thing you need to do is notify the relevant people to confirm the death.
Our caring and compassionate team at Thomas Furber & Co. are here to support and guide you through this process.
What Are The Circumstances Of The Death?
After the death of a loved one, the first thing that needs to happen is for a medical professional to confirm and certify the death.
The steps to take are slightly different depending on whether the death has occurred at home, in a care home, or at a hospital and whether the death was expected or unexpected.
The Death Occurs At Home Or In A Care Home
Step 1
If the death occurs at home, your family will need to contact the GP that your loved one is registered with to come out and confirm the death. If this isn’t possible, call the NHS helpline on 111.
If the death occurs in a care home, the care home will contact the Next of Kin if they’re not already present. Usually, they will also contact the GP to come out to confirm the death.
Once the GP has confirmed the death, they will share details with the Medical Examiner as an independent senior Doctor.
If there are any questions about the cause of death, such as whether it was sudden or unexpected, they will refer the death to the coroner.
Step 2
When you are ready and you have said goodbye to your loved one, you can choose a local funeral director and contact them to arrange for your loved one to be taken into their care.
Our team at Thomas Furber & Co. are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week on 0121 427 2233.
Step 3
You may now want to inform family and friends about the death of your loved one. It’s important to surround yourself with a good support network to help you through this difficult time.
Our team at Thomas Furber & Co. will also be on hand to assist you with any paperwork. Please do not hesitate to give us a call at any time.
Step 4
Within a few days, the Medical Examiner’s office will contact you by phone to explain what the cause of death will be recorded as or if the death needs to be referred to the coroner.
You can ask any questions about the cause of death.
Step 5
A Medical Examiner Officer will call you to tell you that they have sent the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death to the local register office.
You can now contact your local register office to make an appointment to register the death, which usually needs to be done within five days. Find out more about registering the death here.
Step 6
You can now start to make arrangements for the funeral for your loved one. You can do this before you have registered the death.
We have detailed the steps that need to be taken to arrange the funeral here.
The Death Occurs At Hospital
Step 1
If your loved one dies in hospital, the attending physician will confirm the death. They will then share details with the Medical Examiner, as an independent senior Doctor, to review.
The hospital will contact the Next of Kin if they are not already present at the time of the death. They will explain the circumstances of your loved one’s death to you.
If there are any questions resting on the cause of the death, such as whether it was sudden or unexpected, they will refer the death to the coroner. There is more information available here about Sudden or Unexpected Deaths.
Step 2
The next step is to choose a Funeral Director and arrange for your loved one to be taken into their care at the funeral home.
The team at Thomas Furber & Co. are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week on 0121 427 2233.
Our team at Thomas Furber & Co. will also be on hand to assist with any paperwork and clarify any legal procedures.
Step 3
You may now want to inform family and friends about the death of your loved one. It’s important to surround yourself with a good support network to help you through this difficult time.
Step 4
Within a few days, the Medical Examiner’s office will contact you by phone to explain what the cause of death will be recorded as or if the death needs to be referred to the coroner.
You can ask any questions about the cause of death.
Step 5
The hospital bereavement team will call to tell you that they have sent the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death to the register office local to the place of death.
You can now contact your local register office to make an appointment to register the death, which usually needs to be done within five days. Find out more about registering the death here.
Step 6
After registration, we will be able to collect your loved one from the hospital and bring them to our funeral home, where we will care for them until the day of the funeral.
You can now start to make arrangements for the funeral for your loved one. You can do this before you have registered the death. We have detailed the steps that need to be taken to arrange the funeral here.
The Death Is Sudden Or Unexpected Death
Step 1
In the case of a sudden or unexpected death, the first step is for a medical professional to confirm the death.
The relevant authority will refer the death to the coroner. Depending on the circumstances, that could be the doctor, the police, paramedics, the hospital, or the medical examiner.
Step 2
If the death occurred at home or in a care home, you will need to choose a funeral director and arrange for them to come and collect your loved one and take them to their funeral home.
It’s important to let the police, doctor, or medical examiner know which funeral director you have chosen, as they will share this with the coroner.
Step 3
You may now want to inform family and friends about the death of your loved one. It’s important to surround yourself with a good support network to help you through this difficult time.
Step 4
The coroner will contact the Next of Kin. If they decide that the cause of death is clear, then they will notify the GP of the person who has died, who will issue the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death. The coroner will also issue a certificate to the registrar so that you can register the death.
If the cause of death is unclear, the coroner could decide that a post-mortem and/or inquest is required. In these circumstances, they will arrange for the person who has died to be taken into the care of the coroner.
Step 5
When you feel ready, you can start to make arrangements for the funeral. However, if the coroner has decided that a post-mortem and/or an inquest is required, it will not be possible to set a date for the funeral until the Coroner has advised that the funeral can go ahead.
You can still start to make decisions about the type and style of funeral your loved one would have wanted, as well as thinking about the coffin, flowers, music, and readings.
Our team at Thomas Furber & Co. are here to help you through this difficult time.
Step 6
The coroner will undertake their investigations, which will include a post-mortem. Once this has been completed, and the coroner decides no further examinations are needed, they will contact the Next of Kin.
The coroner will also register the death on the family’s behalf. If there is an inquest, the coroner will usually release the body once they have carried out their enquiries.
You can only register the death once the cause of death is known. However, the coroner can give the Next of Kin a Coroner’s Certificate of the Fact of Death (known as an interim death certificate) so that you can notify the registrar of the death.
Step 7
If the death occurred at home or in a care home, the coroner will contact your chosen Funeral Director.
If the death happened in a hospital, you will need to contact your chosen Funeral Director directly.
The Funeral Director will collect the person who has died and take them into their care at the funeral home. At this point, a date for the funeral can be set.
Arranging A Funeral
Our team at Thomas Furber & Co. is here to help you through this difficult time. We take the time to get to know you and your loved one to help you create a funeral that is unique and personal.
Whatever type of funeral you choose, we make sure it’s right for you, your family, and your budget.
We’re Here For You
At Thomas Furber & Co., we are here to help you through this difficult time. Our experienced team will help you step by step to ensure the necessary steps are taken to confirm and register the death, allowing the planning of the funeral to start.
You can also rest assured that your loved one will be cared for in our funeral home until the day of the funeral as if they are a member of our own family.
Our Funeral Home
Our funeral home is located in Harborne. We are ideally located to help families from across Birmingham. We have on-site parking or there is plenty of on-street parking nearby.
You will be greeted by either Keith, Dave, or Sue, who will show you into one of our beautiful arrangement rooms. Here, we will spend time getting to know you and the person who has died so we can help you arrange a funeral that is truly special.
Let Us Help You
We are here to help you in every way we can. Please call or email us with any questions.
For urgent assistance, call us on 0121 427 2233. We are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.